Assessments

Honest reflection, gently guided.

Two free assessments to help you notice what's thriving, what's quietly faded, and where to begin again. Private, about five minutes each, and never a verdict on your relationship.

For married couples

Are We Roommates or Still Connected?

Have you quietly quit your marriage without realizing it? Twenty-four reflections across six areas of connection.

  • About 5 minutes
  • Private
Take the Marriage Check-In

Dating, engaged, or married

Are You Shrinking to Make Your Relationship Work?

Is your relationship making room for your voice, needs, and purpose? Twenty-five reflections across five areas. Becoming one should never require becoming less.

  • About 5 minutes
  • Private
Take the Assessment

This assessment is designed for personal reflection and relationship growth. It is not a clinical assessment, counseling service, or substitute for professional care. If you are experiencing abuse, threats, coercion, or concerns about your safety, please seek support from an appropriate qualified professional or local resource.